hey jeremy! i got ya started now! i'll spread the word! let's see salena and ami have a xanga.....so does melanie..... see that thing on the left side that says subscriptions? mama2kaylon is salena...the mel jel is obviously melanie...aspray16 is ami...and i'm munkey7.  anytime you find someone you want to add to that list just click on their name and go to their list and at the top of their list it should say subscribe to so and so ....whatever their name is...at the bottom of this post it says comments.  on other ppl's sites just click on that and you can comment on whatever great thing they had to say.  click on new weblog entry anytime you decide you want to talk to whoever is listening on your website.  well....yeah i think that's all i can think of right now! well....good luck and have fun!